How to be attractive to ladies
1 Be funny
How many times have you heard someone or told someone that one of the characteristics of ‘the one’ has to be good sense of humor. Someone who can make you laugh? Many studies have shown that women are more attracted to men who can make them laugh. According to a study, a psychologist asked men to tell a joke to their friends at a bar while a woman sat at a nearby table, and it was concluded that the guys who told jokes were three times more likely to get her number than the people who didn’t.
Funny people are considered to be more intelligent and more social, this is what most women look for in their partner is.
2. Surround yourself with friends
People are found to look better when they’re in a group according to a 2014 study from the University of California, San Diego. It’s actually a good strategy to have a few wingmen or wing-women, more so if their facial features complement and average out one’s unattractive idiosyncrasies. Our brains apparently take the faces of a group of people in aggregate, making each face look more ‘average’ and attractive. I’m sure this not too difficult a task to accomplish, I mean how hard could it be to hang out with your friends?
3. Skip the small talk and Talk More
A survey took place in a 1997 study, by a psychologist Arthur AronState University of New York, where he separated two groups of people and paired them off, giving each duo 45 minutes to answer a set of questions. While one question set was small talk, and the other was increasingly probing. He found out that the people who asked deeper questions felt more connected and one couple fell in love.
Talking about yourself stimulates the same brain regions as sex or a good meal, according to Harvard research. Talk more about your self and ask questions... The more you ask the more intimate you get.
4. Be a leader
This does not mean you need to act bossy, but people are attracted to power. A study in 2014 found that people in a group think that the group’s leader is more attractive than people who aren’t in the group. Similarly in a company, employees find the CEO more attractive than people outside the company. Lead author Kevin Kniffin and his colleagues said that ‘In contrast with research traditions that treat physical attractiveness as a static trait, our findings highlight the importance of group membership as a lens for perceiving familiar leaders’ physical attractiveness,
5. Smile
Stating something you all must know by now. Why would anyone fall for someone with a grumpy face? In Switzerland, two experiments were conducted where researchers in examined the relationship between attractiveness and smiling. They found out that the stronger someone smiled, the more attractive a face looked, a happy facial expression compensated for relative unattractiveness.
6. Be Nice
The most important thing is to be nice to people. In 2014 a Chinese study of 120 people found that when people hear about how nice somebody is, they find their faces more attractive. Positive personality characteristics can promote facial attractiveness, on the other hand negative personality characteristics can reduce facial attractiveness. Perhaps this is why it is said personality characteristics may be linked to facial attractiveness.
7. Live in High- status place
A man was photographed with a casual posture in a ‘high status’ luxury apartment and a ‘neutral status’ standard apartment context for a study in Cardiff Metropolitan University. Guess what? Much higher attractiveness rating was given to men with high status. There is an evolutionary element at work according to the researchers: men of high status appear more capable of taking care of a family, making them more attractive
8. Listen to good music
while you’re too busy wearing your best outfits and taking hours to do your makeup and hair, trying to look attractive, you’re really missing out on how to actually attract someone. You can only attract a person with your looks for a while, but these are some of the things which portray your nature and it attracts people more when they see you have the qualities they look for in a person. These are some of the basic things you can work on if you are hoping to attract someone genuinely. Don’t let the artificial you define the kind of person you are, after all it’s the inner beauty that matters more.
9. Own a dog
No, really, it works! A research in University of Michigan made women read vignettes about men and whenever the story featured a person who owned a dog, women rated them with higher long-term attractiveness. With that the researchers found out that owning a pet signaled that you’re nurturing and capable of making long-term commitments and also makes you appear more relaxed, approachable, and happy.
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